Cambodia-- Angkor Wat, Sunshine Orphanage, markets, and lovely people

The waiting area in Koh Samui was the most beautiful airport waiting area I’d ever been in. it was especially for customers flying internationally (that flight was to Bangkok , but after that I was flying with them again to Siem Reap). There was free internet, juice, coffee, tea, food, and the most beautiful airport bathroom I’ve ever been in!

The most beautiful airport bathroom i've ever seen. Ko Samui.

As the plane touched down and we slowed to a stop, I suddenly realized that I was in Cam-fucking-bodia. Alone. Having booked no hotel, and no flight back to Bangkok. I contemplated staying on the plane and having them take me back to Bangkok, but somehow I got off.

The guy at the taxi stand asked me where I was going. I said I hadn’t booked a room yet, and he said “No problem. My house ok?” It was absolutely hilarious. I was relieved that not only could he speak English, he spoke well enough to have a sense of humor. It was a refreshing change from the Thai people who just kind of smile and nod and never get much done. The Thais are wonderfully sweet, sweet people. But they’re unhelpful. Like the Italians. Minus the attitude. But back to Siem Reap.

I got into the air conditioned cab, and the guy was so sweet and he even gave me a bottle of water. I told him I wanted to see a couple of hotels, and he said he could make good recommendations. At the first one, the woman showed me the spartan, steaming hot room, and nobody else was in the hotel. Not good signs. I said no thanks and the guy was like why not? And I was having flashbacks from Koh Samui so I told him to simply take me to the first place I’d asked to go.

As soon as we got there, to Popular Guest House, it felt like home. Well, maybe not home. But it felt right. This place was in the center of town, and I got a hotel room with two beds, air conditioning, hot water, and TV for $13 a night. Not bad!

I met some adorable Danish boys at the restaurant, and a sweet Australian girl named Charlotte. Charlotte and I decided to see Angkor Wat at sunrise the next morning, so we all had a quick dinner and then we went to sleep.

All around town they're selling these tee shirts that say "Same Same" on the front, and "But Different" on the back--they are absolutely hilarious. Asians always say "same same" to mean equal, similar, near, yes, and many other things. To me this shirt was funny because you are always thinking yeah right, same same my ass. But you want to be polite, so it's like yea, same same, sure, but different. On a side, note, there is a grasshopper here jumping around the computer lounge and it seriously looks like an animated Disney version. I'm thinking it's going to start talking or singing soon.

Being here feels like i'm in a dream world. the people can be so amazingly friendly, warm, and giving. But they can also be very intrusive, rude, and energy draining. The tuk tuk drivers offering you their services, the little girls with baskets of shit jewelry--at first it's adorable but it gets really tiring, honestly. These little girls were hassling me outside the Angkor Wat temple as we were eating lunch and I thought it was hilarious. I bargained and bought some stuff, but then they all came over and wanted me to buy something. I didn't want most of it and just thought i'd get it as souvenirs. But you'd say no and they wouldn't give up. Hours later they were still fucking following me. I'd have no problem just handing out dollar bills, but I've heard you shouldn't buy anything from them because it encourages their parents to not let them go to school because they make money from selling these postcards, "jewelry," etc. But then others told me it's fine. So I decided to buy what I could use or give to people, and nothing else.

The conversations with these kids were always the same:
"please look at my nice bracelet"
'"ok. you're just so freakin adorable!"
"where you from?"
"New York."
"Oh New York. Capital is Albany. Governor is ___ Pataki (i can never understand the first name)"
"Amazing!"
"There are 300 million people in America."
"Wow! You are so smart!"
"You buy, ok." I don't use a question mark because it's not a question.
"These are very nice, but I really don't need anything. Thank you though."
"United states. borders are Canada and Mexico."
"Wow! That's right! Good Job!"
"you so pretty. you buy, ok."
"I really don't want anything, thank you. It's all very nice stuff, but really I'm ok."
"You look but you not buy"
"well, yes."
"please madam, you buy ok?"
"No sweety, I really dont need anything. You look tired, do you want to take a rest?"
"you buy, ok"
"No, I won't buy. I'm sorry."
Then, as if they turned on a switch, some of them begin to cry.
"Oh stop. Don't be rediculous, you're not really that sad" I say, and the conversation just keeeeeeeeps on going.

Bargaining is the same. it gets so tiring, i find something i want to buy but you're just being hassled left and right by all the different sales people and i just have to get out of there before my head explodes. I've often been too tired to buy anything because i'm being hassled so much.

But back to the beauty of Siem Reap. Here is Angkor Wat at sunrise:

angkor at sunrise

lions and angkor

Getting up at 5am to see that sunrise was rediculous, but it was beautiful. When we got to Angkor Wat everything was dark, you could barely make out any shapes. But as it got lighter and lighter, all of a sudden you realize you're on this magnificent temple that stretches far and wide. The temples were absolutely amazing:

We took a tuk tuk who took us anywhere we wanted to go the whole day. We saw some ridiculous things in and around the temples:

little boy riding gigantic bike

monkey with froggy

At one point I split up from Charlotte and the guy that went with us, a sweet Irish boy whose name i've already forgotten. I wanted to ride an elephant, so they went ahead and I thought I'd meet them at the next temple. The elephants were all gone when I walked up, so I decided to just walk and meet them there. I was taking in the new setting as I was on my long walk when I was distracted by a snake in my path. No this is not a proverb. I screamed and froze. I didn't know what to do. Was it poisonous? Harmless? Was it going to attack me? Should I run? This all became irrelevent as the snake slithered onto the street, and [babam> [babam> got run over by a car immediatly. Yeah, gross. I pushed on.

Soon I heard kids voices coming from somewhere in the jungle to my left. I decided to go find them, and followed some random path that led me to this adorable little school. I went in and the kids were at recess, so I got to say hi to them and their teacher showed me the little classroom and let me take pictures. I gave him some money for the school, and he was very grateful. Here are the kids playing:

kids at school

The kids in Cambodia are absolutely adorable. Here are some more I saw later at the market:

sweet litle boy at veggie market

sweet little girl with watermelons

And this one was especially patriotic:

yay america baby

On my last day there I was alone as everyone had gone their separate ways, so I decided to visit an orphanage. A girl at the hotel restaurant told me she worked at one in Phenom Phen (southern Cambodia) and to bring gifts and food. I thought it would be so easy, i'd just run over to the market, pick up some bananas or something, and be off. Haha. Yeah right. There is no infrastructure here. Oh yeah, and the people working at the market speak very limited English.

I knew I'd have trouble so I went to a random travel agency and hired a car with a driver who could help me haggle. He was supposed to translate for me at the market and make sure I was getting the best prices. Unfortunately he didn't speak English either. Luckily he knew he was taking me to an orphanage, so that word he might have understood. But I had to pantomime orphanage along with toothbrush, toothpaste, notebooks, pens, toys, soap, laundry detergent, and rice. All the people at the market would give me the highest prices because I was white, and I ended up getting really annoyed. "I'm buying these for Cambodian babies!" Blank stares. "Cambodian babies! Not for me!" Confused looks. I took out my camera and showed them a Cambodian child. "I take toothbrush to them. Not for me." Yeah yeah, the may have gotten it, but they didn't care. I wanted to buy 100 of everything, so haggling to get a decent price was hard enough, but actually locating these items took time too. Nobody actually stocked 100 toothbrushes. I don't know what they were thinking...lol...Here are some sweet Cambodians counting out 100 toothbrushes in English:

sweet people at the market who sold me 100 toothbrushes and toothpastes

So finally we were done. I needed lunch. We went to a restaurant outside of the main town, and my driver went diligently to his little corner to eat. I called him over and told him not to be rediculous, and to come eat with me. I then found myself trying to make conversation with a non-English speaker slurping up soup and gnawing at chunks of beef. And I think he had a crush on me which made it even more awkward. I sort of regretted inviting him over, as I really just wanted some time to myself. But I couldn't just have him banished to the drivers' area, it's just so inhumane.

During our conversation, he told me it was expensive to learn English: $7/month. I handed him $7 and said, "First month's on me." Not like he understood that. But he was very grateful anyway.

I tried to explain that I wanted to go to an orphanage far out of the city, as the girl in the restaurant had told me that those are the ones that really need help. Unfortunately, my driver couldn't understand, and I was too tired to figure out how to explain it to him. He nodded like he understood, and took me to the orphanage which was actually right around the corner from my hotel.

When we got there, the kids were putting on a performance for the visitors. I was so surprised I wasn't the only one, there were maybe 6 other white people there, mostly old hippies. I wondered if my 50kg of rice was going to kids that didn't need it. But I was there, so I sat down and watched:

Cambodian orphans doing a little Khmer dance

Not long after, a little girl came over and stood by me, mesmerized by the older kids dancing on the stage. She looked a little dirty, both her clothes and her face. I tapped her little shoulders and was going to put her on a bench next to the other kids, but she didn't even really respond to my tapping. I tried a few more things, but the girl was just lost inside of her head. Another little girl came up to me, much more affectionate this one, and wanted to be right next to me. When I started clapping, I put my arms around her back as we faced the stage and clapped with her hands. She loved it! The little one was just kind of mellowed out though, I couldn't figure her out. But she wanted me to pick her up, so I did.

As people cleared out, I asked the staff if I could give the kids what I had brought them, and they said sure. My driver (genius of a man) asked if I wanted him to take pictures, and I said yeah sure, and handed him the camera. He went wild! In this first one i'm handing a bouncy ball to a kid, with the tranquil little girl on my hip:

giving toothbrush

All of the kids said thank you by putting their hands together in prayer position and looking down, it was the cutest thin i've ever seen! Here's one:

I saw that the other white people had left bags of rice and other stuff, and I was worried that this orphanage had more than enough, and the other orphanages farther away didn't get anything. I talked to the owner/manager guy, also about the lethargic little girl.

Me talking to the owner with baby in arm

He said she was usually very bouncy, and showed me the storage room where I saw bags and bags of rice, paper, pens, toys, soap--everything I thought would make a difference. I told him I was grateful to have come and seen the m, but I wished I could have gone to the other orphanages and given them what they needed. He told me not to worry, that he had organized with the other orphanages for them to pick up supplies every week. He said that they do get tons of supplies, and he rations them to the other orphanages. I was so relieved.

Here are some more adorable kids:

Adorable kid #4-- Mr. Cheeky

Adorable Kid #5

I want to send them money when I get back to NY. I want to do a fund raiser or something for them. The money that is negligible in our world, like a dollar or 10 dollars, goes so far in Cambodia. One of the boys from the orphanage who is now much older is in his second of year of medical school! Anyway, I was so sad to leave these little faces, but I needed one hell of a shower.

I was not happy about leaving the next day. But it had to happen. I went to the markets in the morning to buy last minute silk scarves, Buddha statues, and a huge bag to carry it all in, and then I rushed to the airport as I was completely late, and actually arrived on time. My stomach kept hurting really bad off and on that morning, but I ignored it as I was off to Bangkok to meet mom!

written by

jezra on December 30, 2007 from Siem Reap, Cambodia

from the travel blog: Jillian Does Southeast Asia

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Angkor Wat.. Surely an amazing and must go destination when visit to Siem Reap! I have been visiting to Siem Reap last year! Consider as backpacker trip! I was using travel guidebook from a4trip.com. It really helpful to me! Hope it would help you if you plan to visit Siem Reap again! :)

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