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First Snow of the winter

Harbin, China


Friday it snowed for the first time this winter. I'm sure the stuff will be here until we go home New Years Eve, but the 1st snow is always the funnest.
It was late for the 1st snow this year, other years we had snow in early October. The snow is bittersweet because I rather have pretty snow if it is so freakin' cold, but we can't ride our bikes anymore...so everything becomes so much more of a chore.
Little Guy is a Southern boy so he doesn't have much snow experience. He liked it but thought it was too cold. Princess just loves snow!!!! It was hard to get pictures of her because she runs and plays so fast in the snow that the camera just gets a blur.
We went to Hans with the other foreigners on Friday night.
It is like a buffet with kabobs. They bring out these huge kabobs of meat and slice it on your plate. All kinds of things including tongue, Chicken heart, squid, and Normal stuff like steak and hotdogs. Then there is a buffet on chinese dishes an odd pastries. It is suppose to be a German theme, but I've been to Germany and never had food like that.
Saturaday thie kids played in the snow and then the power went out (just like every snowstorm on Lummi Island).
Teenager was pretty sad without the net so she even played with us.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on November 15 from Harbin, China
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Things you buy in China that you'd never buy in the States

Harbin, China


We went downtown to try to get Little Guy's picture drawn. The artists were gone, so we snapped a couple of pictures of St. Sophias instead.
We thought of walking to the flood monument because sometimes artists are there, but Little Guy is not much of a hiker. Little Guy certainly is spiritual, he had a throw down tantrum because we wouldn't go in St. Sophias. It is a museum of Harbin, my students said it wasn't worth the entrance price. My Russian friend said Harbin used to have alot of Russian built churches, but it makes her cry to see what they've been turned into.
One of Teenagers favorite places to shop is underground St. Sophias. So we went down.
One of the things that is great about being in another country for Teenager is that she can wear what ever she wants. Everybody thinks she is amazing just because she's different so her clothes don't have the same message that they do back in the States.
Harbin is a Russian town and one of the big differences between us and the Russians is that the Russia chics always wear something form fitting and usually wear heels.
This has given Teenager some ideas...I think in the States she would be too embarrassed to wear these outfits, but in China she feels very confident. Course as a mom, I'd prefer she pick some more conservative stuff. But she's been such a trooper living over here for 3 years that I figure she can have some fun. Plus the Chinese boys are SOOOOO intimidated by her that they aren't going to try try an funny business, they are just happy to get their picture taken with her.
Her favorite shop sell "hot mama" dresses for 15RMB in a sales bin. The seller just loves Teenager and brings out all sorts of other dresses and gives them to her at the sales price. Occasionally, she will bring one out for me too! She seems to know I'm a little more conservative so she usually brings me something that you'd wear to a ballroom dance competition. Shopping is such an experience.
I love the displays.
We also had some sweet potato custards...it was a lot like sweet potato pie from Georgia except there was a layer of bean curd. It was really good.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on November 9 from Harbin, China
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Haircut

Harbin, China


Little Guy needed another haircut. His first haircut happened when I was teaching in Beijing. He didn't enjoy it. There was much discussion about his sideburns. The hairdresser wanted to leave them and refused to cut them off. Sideburns are thought to be good here. Apparently it means you have good energy. Lots of guys work at growing sideburns.
This time my student volunteered to take us to his guy. The place was much nicer than the usual hole in the wall where we have gone before. It was full of hip guys. Little Guy wanted nothing to do with it. He started shaking his hand "no" as soon as we walked in. He had a throw down when we tried to take off his coat. He refused to go over to the hairwash area. The barber was so cool about it. He said decided to just cut the hair. Little guy was wrangled into the apron and just sat so dejected. It is interesting because when he goes to the doctor he doesn't mind blood draws or anything like that. But a haircut....
After a while he realized it wasn't torture and he got very excited! He started making faces at himself in the mirror. I don't have the sign for "be still" so it became a little challenge. But the barber was so patient.
The barber had a long discussion about the sideburns and then shaved them off. The barber had fake side burns, so you could really see that he thought it was a pity to waste natural sideburns.
My student is a law professor and so we had a long talk about the profession of haircutting. I found it quite interesting. If you don't pass the high school entrance exam then you can go to technical school to become a barber. It costs 4000rmb for one year. The barber graduates and makes 3000rmb a month. So it is a pretty good job. He said that our students of the university pay 4000RMB each year and graduate and can't find a job, so maybe a being a barber is a good thing.
The haircut cost 6RMB.
On the way home Little Guy remembered the way we had come and we were quite impressed with his sense of direction since he had never walked that way before.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on November 6 from Harbin, China
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Little Guy's 1st Birthday with US

Harbin, China


Wooohooo! More cake.
Actually we didn't pick his cake out the ayi did. We have been sick and were at the hospital yesterday and the day before. I went thru with monks and my bill was quite low. Chris was charged 4 times as much as me. Usually our prior experience with illness in China is that the foreign affairs dept. comes holds our hand and escorts us through the maze of medical stuff. This time we used the cell phone.
I coughed in class and my supervisor translated thru my students that I should go home and make my husband come here, now. Your students translating for your boss is always a delicate balance. As a wife, ordering my husband to take over my classes is equally delicate. I refuse to be put in that spot. I just always say, "No, he can't"
So the foreign affairs office called him and told him to go to the hospital immediately after reviewing his symptoms. Now my supervisor told me to go home and wait for foreign affairs to call me (via my students translation). After Chris finished at the hospital it was too late for me to go, so I went the next morning.
None of this would have happened had the hospital chosen to treat our kids last week. We took the ayi because foreign affairs said the previous time that she was fine to go with the kids. She speaks little English but knows in Chinese the situation with the kids. For some reason, it was Friday, the hospital refused to look at the kids. We had been 2 weeks ago so we were a little confused. The ayi got in a heated debate with the doctor. Apparently they would look at Princess but refused to look at Little Guy. The word deaf and no and he doesn't belong here were thrown around. After discussion, they let the ayi take the temps. The ayi read the thermo and it showed fever. I looked at it too. The thermometer were handed to the doctor who looked ayi and said a number a good 2 degrees different and said there was no problem here, good bye. So we left. The ayi went off on her bike and procured some chinese medicine that worked wonders for Little Guy. Everyone else continued on the downward spiral of sickness made a little worse by whatever germs we picked up in our attempt to treat the kids.
We faithfully filled out our temp forms and placed them in the box each day. 3 days went by, no one called.
But one coughing spell in class and there was immediate concern for our well being. Anyway, we are sick. No one translated a diagnosis other than the dates we can go to back to work. It is not the pig flu. And Chris is not as serious as me, so he can return to work on Friday. He said he wanted to go back today, but they said "No, you need to take care of her and your family" Awe, how sweet is that. No boss in America has ever said that to us before---your wife had her baby (on Sat), great see you Monday-- is what you get in America. I have really found that the Chinese guys are unfairly stereotyped as not being compassionate. They really seem to bend over backwards to care for their wives and kids.
It turns out the foreign affairs office is down to 2 healthy people and so they really couldn't afford to get sick walking us thru the hospital. The remembered that I was allergic to everything and took great measures to translate all the medications to us and to make sure there were no reactions. For months, we had been terrified of getting the pig flu and villianized for being evil Americans trying to sicken everyone. But we really found that getting sick of course sucks, but that our bosses were much kinder and understanding than we imagined. Course we don't have the pig flu, so that may be why.
So anyway, back to the big day. We used our way cool software and were able to view You Tube for the first time in a year or 2. We had heard that there were alot of sign language songs on there, so we looked up Happy Birthday and learned it. It was very sweet.
We started his celebration by biking the cake and kids to kindergarten. But the kids were going on a field trip and loading the bus "right now" and the not so good English teacher told us to take the cake home and bring it back tomorrow. Little Guy was not to happy about the parting of his cake. We were a little baffled about the field trip. Yesterday we had discussed bringing the cake and there was no mention of a trip. We still don't know where they went, something about a performance. It is almost better to be blindsided this way because there is no pre-field trip anxiety for the kids.
So after school we picked him up and had cake and song at home. He was happy. We thought the cake was quite pretty, we had hoped for dragons or tigers, but flowers are at least peaceful.
For dinner we served his favorite food so far, pork roast and boiled potatoes.
He got a remote control car and it has provided hours of entertainment until the wheel was stuck in Princess's hair and Little Guy wouldn't give up the remote or stop pushing the go button.
When we are well again we will take him out for a birthday celebration at KFC or McD's.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 29 from Harbin, China
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Fall inHarbin

Harbin, China


This fall has been the nicest and longest we have had in China.
We have taken some nice walks around campus.
We enjoy the Chickens.
But don't like playing Chicken!
We like people watching. They seem to watch us too.
The good thing about China is that is never the same place twice.

Even Wallyworld will throw in a few astonauts.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 25 from Harbin, China
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The water cycle

Harbin, China


A few days ago they turned on the heat full time.
Yeah, we like to be warm. In Shenyang, they waited until 3 snows before the cranked the furnace and then it was never very warm even. One of the reasons we moved to Harbin was that even though it is super cold, they believe in cranking the heat so you are really warm inside. When we were at the consulate in Shenyang, we talked to one of the workers (they do outreach stuff to Americans living in Harbin) and she said that in Shenyang it might be like-16C and Harbin it might be -19C, but really when its that cold does 3 degrees matter because you don't want to go outside anyway. Good point, so we chose to be in Harbin where at least we are warm inside. My experience last winter was -16C your camera works, -18C it doesn't. Anyway...
Just before they cranked the furnace, (right outside my apartment window
) they sprayed something on the coal. I didn't remember this last year, but maybe I wasn't paying attention. I said to my husband, ew, what ever they are spraying we are going to be breathing it out the chimney. Sure enough when they cranked the furnace, our blue sky went smog orange.
So finally it has rained, knocking that stuff out of the sky.
Lets just say things are bubbly.
Everywhere!!!
The leaves have turned and the campus ispretty.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 20 from Harbin, China
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Ethnic Museum

Harbin, China


Sunday we decided to visit the Temple/Museum on our campus. It has recently been restored and is free. I'm not sure if it is a Province or City Museum. The restoration was really grand. I had been to the non-restored part over a year ago. They didn't let you take pictures inside the buildings before. Now there were no signs saying not to take pictures and the building ayi didn't stop us. They have some cool stuff, it's just not displayed the same as at the Smithsonian, plus there are no English signs. So it is kind of like being the archeologist yourself and figuring out what the item is and what purpose it had. I really like the fish skin clothes. This province used to have "fish people" and they lived in tree Houses and fished and ate fish and even made their clothes from fish skin. One student once drew me a picture of his dream House and I was really impressed when he told me the Story of the fish people. I said that I wanted to see the tree Houses, but he sadly wrote the government tore them down on the picture. Anyway, last year my boss gave me a gorgeous fish people art piece. It is so cool it made of fish skin and shows a woman with a baby. The museum has quite of collection of fish skin clothes. They also had some baby carriers and silk shoes that I thought were cool. Little Guy liked the bow display and the canoes. The museum is inside a temple that is "not Buddhist" according to our students. The students say they go there to pray before a test. It was Sunday so there were no students, but there were some Japanese folks dressed up in old costumes. Princess was really taken with them.
She said "Why didn't I wear my Princess dress today?" when she saw them. We usually refer to her Princess attire as The Uniform because she wears the dress 5 days out of the week. The kids thought the highlight was the fish pond and bridge. They played on the bridge until closing time and the guard started chasing people out.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 11 from Harbin, China
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Onions, the smell of fall

Harbin, China


The sign of fall in the treeless urban jungle is the appearance of vegetables everywhere out to dry. My 3rd year in China and I do still find this as fascinating as the leaf changes in the South. My awe is the amazing places they will put the veggies. And how they are so symmetrical and orderly with the arrangement. The fall butterflies just love the onions. In Shenyang we had a first floor apartment and people would ask us to dry their veggies between the bars of our windows. Nothing like opening your window in the morning to a stack of onions.

What I am really waiting for is seeing the herd of chihuahuas (that yips and wakes me up everyday) pee all over them. I am quite interested in the double standard that the chinese think everything that is on the ground is dirty-yet they leave their entire winter supply of veggies out on the ground to the mercy of the dogs and spitters. I have been told that they dry the veggies because in winter prices go up and it is too cold to go out anyway.
The funniest thing happened at the store yesterday. Actually yesterday was a really bad day for little guy but I don't want to talk about it. So I went to Carrefour by myself last night to buy groceries. The check out line at Carrefour is the slowest on earth. The lines are long and people finally get their two seconds with the cashier and want to pester the poor girl about the price of an egg. Like she can bargain with them or something. Anyway they will argue and hold up the line and about half the time after waiting in line 15minutes they will walk of in a huff with nothing when the cashier won't change the price. So I'm in line about 7minutes into my wait. Always people come along with just a few items and try to cut in front. So this guy has about 10 bottles of beer without a basket or cart and wants to cut. He is whining about how heavy the bottles were. I'm thinking- you picked them up, if you want them, deal with it. So the lady behind me lets him in between us. He continues his whining. I refuse to budge so he starts to rant about how I'm a foriegner and can't understand anything. I think he really worked up and was going on about how selfish I was to not let him infront to set down his beer. He stands there a few minutes and his cousin shows up (this always happens if you let them cut). The cousin has more beer and a bunch of tea with instant coupons on them. Instant coupons always result in a big argument with the cashier, so I was really glad I didn't let him in front of me. So I wait out the line, probably 10 minutes. The guy and his cousin continue to have there foreigners are stupid conversation and the woman behind them is contributing to the conversation. Nothing like enduring racial prejudice just to get your groceries. They did analyze my purchases too. Little Guy cooperates for marshmallows so I had about 5 bags of them, so they had lots of fuel for their foreigners are fat and unhealthy rant. Finally it's my turn and the cashier pokes a hole in my dried red beans and they spill all over. The guy then starts telling the cashier how I don't understand anything and I'm stupid. So I'm packing the groceries in my bags (brought from home-Mr. Beer was so smart that he hadn't remembered his). The cashier tells me the total in Chinese and I handed her what I thought was the right amount. I had miscounted and was off by 5RMB, so they guy is still going on about how I don't understand anything. I pulled out another 5 and handed it to the cashier and said "Ming bai" ("I understand" in chinese) in perfect tone and looked at the guy right in the eye and smiled. He was so embarrassed!!! He just covered his face and started laughing and all the other people behind him started laughing too. He said (in chinese) "OMG, she understood everything I just said." I felt so vindicated. I didn't say anything else and just left.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 10 from Harbin, China
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Spiritual

Harbin, China


Little Guy is so spiritual. I think it is really fascinating since he is deaf. When he first came to us, we took him to a temple and he was so serious in praying to all the Buddas. Since then, we have seen him pray to almost any statue. Our least fav is when he insists to bow down at all the Mao's all over our campus.
Anyway at dinner we always hold hands and say the simple Madeline grace-We love our bread, we love our butter, but most of all we love each other. We have learned it in sign as well. Little Guy loves this part of the meal. He actually hates mealtime, so this usually is the only part of the meal that he is happy. I still don't know how someone can be so picky, but anyway...
So, last night he was looking at his little car book. I saw him touch one of the cars and sign the Madeline prayer.
I was really amazed that he had made the connection to the fact that we are praying at meal time. We have never attempted to explain it to him, it's just something we do. And I was in total shock that he had the insight to pray for a car.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 6 from Harbin, China
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National Day

Harbin, China


Due to the fear of pig flu, the cut our National Day Holiday to 1 day. We celebrated by picking up Little Guy's custom made clothes. Since the addition of him to the family, shopping has become quite a chore. He came with the clothes on his back, so he has needed a complete wardrobe. We have been able to pick up somethings at Wallyworld and Carrefour, but he seems to have a shortage of pants. Rather than spend a half a day traveling by bus looking for the specialty area of boy's clothing in Harbin we decided to just have them made at the closest seamstress'. It actually is about the same cost as retail, if not a little cheaper. I sew back in the States, but have no machine here. Little Guy had 3 pairs of pants and some overalls made. Princess is so lucky to get hand-me downs that she hardly ever needs clothes, but she likes to match her brother. So she had a skirt made from the pant leg of Teenager's cut-off jeans with a matching patch to Little Guy's Obama'lls.
We watched the parade and gala on tv and were amazed at the ability for an open air limo for a world leader.
Back at class, the next day the students gave lots of feedback of their feeling of the celebration. They thought that the parade was very "serious" and the gala was "easygoing". They really like to share their feelings about the Western reporting of the events.
The best news is that last night was the first night we heard Little Guy laugh in his sleep. Quite often he wakes us up crying in his sleep. It is so sad because he won't open eyes for us to sign comforting things to him and since he can't hear, there is not much we can do. So we were really happy that he woke us up laughing in his sleep.


permalink written by  carseat tourist on October 5 from Harbin, China
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